My dear chinggu,
I do have a minor heart attack when I read your blog. Not just heart attack, i am pissed off. Why on earth do you have to do that? Do you know how DANGEROUS that is to be in a room with a man? With your feelings and lust of being with the man you love that you have that time can lead to zina. Not to mention, korang dah dedahkan aurat korang. Yes, maybe kita tak ada experience dalam bab bercinta, tapi kita tahu dalam pergaulan ada batasan. Kita tak nak bila awk dah start exposing yourself pada lelaki ajnabi, and that relationship wont last. Macam useless je benda tu. Kita tak nak korang menyesal di kemudian hari. Please, i love both of you very much from the bottom of my heart and so do your parents. Kalau apa apa jadi pada waktu tu, awak akan memalukan parents awak. Please, before doing that, think about your image, your reputation and your parents.
About guys, i am not saying all of them were bad. But all men in the world has the same nafsu to women. Yang buat mereka berbeza ialah whether diorang boleh tahan atau tak. Kalau diorang tak boleh tahan, awak tak boleh salahkan diorang kalau diorang buat apa apa kat awak. Itu memang sifat natural diorang.
Lastly, i know living away from your parents gave you a slightly feels of freedom but if you think twice, your parents let you go because they believe in you. They believe that you could adapt with your new surrounding on your own. Kalau tak, kita percaya parents awak akan pastikan awak balik setiap minggu tak pun akan call korang setiap 2 jam. Please, college doesnt cause this to happen. You are there to study. It might be your surrounding to put the blame on. Muhasabah diri and reflect what you did.
Bila kita cakap kita approved boyfriend korang, that means kita percaya diorang bukan jenis lelaki yang sanggup ambil kesempatam pada korang. I can see their sincerity and their love for you. Try to talk to them about this thing. Kalau diorang betul betul betul sayangkan awak, dia akan cuba untuk jaga kesucian awak and aurat awak sampai korang kahwin. I believe both of them are that kind of man.
Last but not least, if you cant hold your nafsu and your feelings any longer, i suggest for you to get married. Pronto! My believe, bila lelaki dah tengok aurat kita sebelum kahwin for several times, im sure diorang akan jadi bosan bila dah kahwin. That is my point of view.
Sorry if both of you find this post as a lecture and nagging. Sorry if you feel that i am being so busy body in your relationship. I can do much more drastic if i am your parents. I just love both of you so much, and i dont want you to become something that you aren't. Kalau kita diamkan je, kita kira bersubahat dengan awak dalam case ni. I hope this post doesnt affect our friendship. Please, i do take this thing very seriously. I hope you wont repeat it one more time. Kalau nak buat jugak, make sure hubungan korang dah halal. Kita sayang korang. :"(
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